After reading few posts and observing boys running after girls and gaining nothing but a sad face and hopelessness, I couldn't stop myself from sharing few thoughts with you about SINFE NAAZUK.First of all what is LOVE? What and Why do girls want to be just "friends" first? What does a girl look for in a guy? and most imprtantly, what do u have to "offer" her?
* You are NOT going to gain anything by keeping your feelings inside and thinking "Oh she would get mad at me if i told her how much I care about her and all my time(including Prep time) is spent in thinking about her?"So Express yourself. A man falls for what he sees whereas a woman falls for her ears.
* You will NOT be able to impress a lady by ALWAYS being Mr Nice to her. A girl likes a guy who is sometimes sweet to her, sometimes controling and sometimes careless. As the hadith says. A woman is like a bent branch of tree, if you tried to bend it too much, it would break , if u tried to straighten it too much, it would break.
*You will NOT get anywhere if you are not sure what u want. Women are sensitive, they seek a strong(CONFIDENT) person, someone who would not leave 'em stranded in the middle. So CONFIDENCE is the key.
* You will NOT gain access to the heart of a girl/woman, if you gave up on her first "No". One has to understand that they test you as to how much u can take. So Learn their vocabulary such as, the famous,
MAY BE, means a Yes
NO(means yes, it all depends on the tone),
WE WILL SEE, she does not want to give u the upper hand
You DONT EVEN KNOW ME, she likes you telling her mumbo jumbo, but she wants more.
YEAH YEAH, she is testing your patience
WHATEVER, she has no answer .....................and many more
oops its past midnight here, so I am going to hit the sack now
No hard feelings
Undaunted
14 comments:
oh wise one lol do tell more.
so basically ... keep 'em bent
sorry guys couldnt resist, dont all jump me at once
isnt the bent thing abour the Rib?
*confused*
lol..intriguing..
just be careful the "no" means "yes" mantra may lead to a few restraining orders:) lol
Hehe... that was very elucidating. By the way, you have a fabulous blog here. Your style of writing is very inspiring. Keep up the good work!
WE WILL SEE, she does not want to give u the upper hand
this is so true. this one friend tells me to always go out with someone who is a lil dumb and has a minus point which is obvious to both of you so you can have the upper hand :S that is very shallow i know. obviously, everyone has a minus point. people should stand up for what they believe not be the "joru ka ghulam" kind (which is sucha a turn off btw) argh be a man!
NOOO!!! NO MEANS NO!!!
BBcd is confused...yet again! Dont worry even i get confused at hadith sometime, one contradicts the other...khair it was only an example!
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" You will NOT be able to impress a lady by ALWAYS being Mr Nice to her. A girl likes a guy who is sometimes sweet to her, sometimes controling and sometimes careless."
My husband is usually sweet; after he read your post, he tried being controlling and careless . . . he's still lying on the floor recovering from the blow . . . ;-)
ROFL.
Nadia, you just made my flatmate wanna see what i was laughing loud about.
See ya here again!
Oh,my big hitch baby, haha.
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